The yelling was less deafening than the silence.
As much as I used to cover my ears,
I'd keep my hands at my sides now
if I could get the yelling back.
I never knew the extent of the fights,
just that it was a battle of wits,
mixed with a contest of bitch-fits,
and topped off with a "Fuck you"...
all for good measure I suppose.
The talks afterwards were the worst though.
I felt like a witness on one of those TV shows,
where two detectives take turns in the room,
asking odd questions and making statements...
like, "You know this has nothing to do with you, right?"
and, "We both love you very much baby" to me.
Of course, this was always after another argument,
where I would be sent to my room in the afternoon
or can't come in the house when I'm outside playing...
so I learned to just wait until the music turned down,
the backdrop to their curse words and insults...
the instrumental that never drowned them out,
the same music that I wish were playing right now.
If the music were playing, and the shouts were starting,
I'd know that we were here. together. a family.
and that they still loved each other...
I take that back; They still tell me they do,
just not enough to work it out I guess,
and of course, this has nothing to do with me.
But somewhere in my mind I misconstrue:
and think that they want nothing to do with me.
The weekend exchanges...I felt like a UPS package.
Both always trying to out-do the other,
but it seems that it was never ME they had in mind.
More questions...
"Did your father buy you those brand new shoes?"
"I bet your mother wouldn't let you stay up this late huh?"
"Your father doesn't bring any other women around you does he?"
"You would tell me if your mother has strange men at home, right?"
One day, I just packed up my book bag
with as much stuff that could fit
as many snacks as I could carry
and the blanket that my mom and dad always used...
and I left.
I left because I don't like being in the middle.
I left because I don't like choosing who's right.
I left because I don't know what went wrong...
I left because it was no longer "us"...
it was "me and her" or "me and him"
and I just want "us" back...
so I left it up to "him and her"
in a note titled "While I Wait..."
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
...in the dark.
...in the dark.
Meet me there.
Doesn't really matter what you wear,
don't care what fragrance you choose,
It'll be just me...and you...
in the dark.
Let me learn of your beauty
without using eyesight
so if I were to ever be
blinded permanently,
never again to see light...
I could still see you,
in the dark.
Allow my fingertips to trace
the very outline of your existence
until I've got it down-pat,
with my eyes closed...
so even as I sleepwalk,
I wouldn't miss a step
on your body's trail...
in the dark.
When your vision adjusts to the night,
search for me...let me feel your stare
so that I can know where to look
in a room full of hundreds of eyes...
It will be your glare that lights
those despondent days
when the sun doesn't act right.
Love me to your fullest potential,
hold onto me in the dark...
as if you were to lose me
if you ever let go of your grip.
And I promise to do the same,
in the dark, or the light.
Meet me there.
Doesn't really matter what you wear,
don't care what fragrance you choose,
It'll be just me...and you...
in the dark.
Let me learn of your beauty
without using eyesight
so if I were to ever be
blinded permanently,
never again to see light...
I could still see you,
in the dark.
Allow my fingertips to trace
the very outline of your existence
until I've got it down-pat,
with my eyes closed...
so even as I sleepwalk,
I wouldn't miss a step
on your body's trail...
in the dark.
When your vision adjusts to the night,
search for me...let me feel your stare
so that I can know where to look
in a room full of hundreds of eyes...
It will be your glare that lights
those despondent days
when the sun doesn't act right.
Love me to your fullest potential,
hold onto me in the dark...
as if you were to lose me
if you ever let go of your grip.
And I promise to do the same,
in the dark, or the light.
Changing Seasons
Maybe I'm the reason,
and was in search for the rhyme
or
perhaps you were the season,
and didn't see the change coming.
What was thought to be the long haul,
in essence turned into a short trip
and now we must embrace anew...
A new beginning
after an ending
that in fact,
I knew about.
She's changing...
can no longer see her sons
under the same unified light.
We're changing...
trying to emerge out of
the darkest part of the night.
Your season has changed,
for the better I'd say...
others may beg to differ;
we season things differently.
True, you no longer have any more spring to your step
but you're not suffering through these Chicago winters
Summers just won't be the same without the baseball games...
but you suffering through life is all that's on my brain...
so fall peacefully, into eternal rest...
and enjoy the season's change.
and was in search for the rhyme
or
perhaps you were the season,
and didn't see the change coming.
What was thought to be the long haul,
in essence turned into a short trip
and now we must embrace anew...
A new beginning
after an ending
that in fact,
I knew about.
She's changing...
can no longer see her sons
under the same unified light.
We're changing...
trying to emerge out of
the darkest part of the night.
Your season has changed,
for the better I'd say...
others may beg to differ;
we season things differently.
True, you no longer have any more spring to your step
but you're not suffering through these Chicago winters
Summers just won't be the same without the baseball games...
but you suffering through life is all that's on my brain...
so fall peacefully, into eternal rest...
and enjoy the season's change.
Thursday, July 9, 2009
When You Speak...
When You Speak...
an ear twitches...
intrigue is perked
eyebrows raise
thoughts halt
attention is paid
a life is changed.
When You Speak...
old folks share a chuckle
children dance
men nod in approval
women smile genuine
doors open to hearts
you are invited in.
When You Speak...
people adhere to your verbs
lives are spared
children are born
families unite
people stop fighting
people start writing
Masterpieces are created...
just behind your words.
When You Speak...
the atmosphere changes
life becomes less dangerous
the Earth keeps spinning,
but it has you in mind.
When You Speak, you wield a great power to make positive changes. Imagine the impact if you were to act...
an ear twitches...
intrigue is perked
eyebrows raise
thoughts halt
attention is paid
a life is changed.
When You Speak...
old folks share a chuckle
children dance
men nod in approval
women smile genuine
doors open to hearts
you are invited in.
When You Speak...
people adhere to your verbs
lives are spared
children are born
families unite
people stop fighting
people start writing
Masterpieces are created...
just behind your words.
When You Speak...
the atmosphere changes
life becomes less dangerous
the Earth keeps spinning,
but it has you in mind.
When You Speak, you wield a great power to make positive changes. Imagine the impact if you were to act...
Long Distance...
Long Distance relationships are hard.
The distance between me and her is crazy...
more miles than I care to count on a map.
We talk thru text while both watching our favorite show;
I watch from the comfort of my couch at home;
she tells me she's watching from her bed.
We never talk TV; we discuss 'you and me',
'us' stuff...and how 'we' can solve certain things.
I wonder if she really laughed when she typed it...
I can't hear it so I'm doubtful.
She says she misses me...I don't know though,
if I only had her hug to reassure me...
or a kiss to remind me...
She probably feels the same,
but little does she realize how I suffer
how I use work as an escape to take my mind off
because when I sit at home it works overtime...
Hopefully soon we can be together
this is slow murder to me...
it hurts but not enough to die;
it's driving me crazy like papercuts...
if all of those were placed on my heart,
and salt mixed with alcohol were poured in...
like I said, not enough to die
but at times I wish I were dead.
Show's off...now she's ready to talk
says to call her in a minute and 17 seconds...
a minute sixteen, her name's on the screen
of my phone, while on TV is BET...
As I wait for her to answer I hear our favorite song
drum in my ears, 'Simply Beautiful' penned by Al Green.
And as I daydream about a love far away from here,
her answer brings me back to life...
back to the reality of how we are swimming in love,
but when we are sad it feels more like we're drowning.
Typical convo...neither of us say much...
I can envision her sitting on the bed
laying on her stomach, left arm props her head
right manicured hand on the phone and such...
I get a call from my job, "I'll hit u right back"...
Swear, in my ears I could almost hear
the frustrated closing slam of her flip phone...
Turned the TV off, room is all black...
Get off the line with my boss, call back...
'Simply Beautiful' fills my ears again...
always to the same part before the pickup:
"...and I'd expect a whole lot of love outta you..."
Hurts my heart every time to hear him say that
it's like my Love Trial's a movie and he's the soundtrack
When I call, I hear the phone ring...
...and her ringtone for me...
That reminds me why I shouldn't be calling...
We're in a long distance relationship in the same house
but there are prices to pay when you strike your spouse
the body heals fast, but there's no timetable
for wounds of the heart and the mind
the abused is now the abuser,
and it serves me right.
The distance between me and her is crazy...
more miles than I care to count on a map.
We talk thru text while both watching our favorite show;
I watch from the comfort of my couch at home;
she tells me she's watching from her bed.
We never talk TV; we discuss 'you and me',
'us' stuff...and how 'we' can solve certain things.
I wonder if she really laughed when she typed it...
I can't hear it so I'm doubtful.
She says she misses me...I don't know though,
if I only had her hug to reassure me...
or a kiss to remind me...
She probably feels the same,
but little does she realize how I suffer
how I use work as an escape to take my mind off
because when I sit at home it works overtime...
Hopefully soon we can be together
this is slow murder to me...
it hurts but not enough to die;
it's driving me crazy like papercuts...
if all of those were placed on my heart,
and salt mixed with alcohol were poured in...
like I said, not enough to die
but at times I wish I were dead.
Show's off...now she's ready to talk
says to call her in a minute and 17 seconds...
a minute sixteen, her name's on the screen
of my phone, while on TV is BET...
As I wait for her to answer I hear our favorite song
drum in my ears, 'Simply Beautiful' penned by Al Green.
And as I daydream about a love far away from here,
her answer brings me back to life...
back to the reality of how we are swimming in love,
but when we are sad it feels more like we're drowning.
Typical convo...neither of us say much...
I can envision her sitting on the bed
laying on her stomach, left arm props her head
right manicured hand on the phone and such...
I get a call from my job, "I'll hit u right back"...
Swear, in my ears I could almost hear
the frustrated closing slam of her flip phone...
Turned the TV off, room is all black...
Get off the line with my boss, call back...
'Simply Beautiful' fills my ears again...
always to the same part before the pickup:
"...and I'd expect a whole lot of love outta you..."
Hurts my heart every time to hear him say that
it's like my Love Trial's a movie and he's the soundtrack
When I call, I hear the phone ring...
...and her ringtone for me...
That reminds me why I shouldn't be calling...
We're in a long distance relationship in the same house
but there are prices to pay when you strike your spouse
the body heals fast, but there's no timetable
for wounds of the heart and the mind
the abused is now the abuser,
and it serves me right.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Mathematics of Love
1 Principle (1)
plus +
2 Believers (2) = 3
plus +
2 Hearts all in (2) = 5
minus -
4 half minds of doubt (4) = 1
good and bad times x
effort for 2 (2) = 2
plus +
nobody's perfect (0) = 2
split by none
equals
you and me, two.
All that's left is all that matters.
Nobody Knows But Me
Humiliation
Loneliness
Self-Doubt
Heart-Break
The endless chain of unattainable love...
whether it's me on the non-giving end,
or chasing after out-of-reach hearts...
It's an seemingly infinite emotional cycle.
I could use that now, to ride away from here...
'love' or a 'cycle'...I'm not choosy, really
Because standing around others makes me lonely,
but being by myself comforts me greatly...
Even in the midst of the quote 'Genius loves company';
There aren't many to qualify being around,
otherwise it would be saying how Genius appreciates it...
I often hate when I think out loud
so then I attempt to reinstate it
only to end up locked out of my own mind
So it appears the insanity I tried to hide,
is prevalent for all far and wide to see...
but no one can recognize it for what it is,
stares it in the face, yet
can't see the forest for the trees.
It might be best that
Nobody knows but me.
Loneliness
Self-Doubt
Heart-Break
The endless chain of unattainable love...
whether it's me on the non-giving end,
or chasing after out-of-reach hearts...
It's an seemingly infinite emotional cycle.
I could use that now, to ride away from here...
'love' or a 'cycle'...I'm not choosy, really
Because standing around others makes me lonely,
but being by myself comforts me greatly...
Even in the midst of the quote 'Genius loves company';
There aren't many to qualify being around,
otherwise it would be saying how Genius appreciates it...
I often hate when I think out loud
so then I attempt to reinstate it
only to end up locked out of my own mind
So it appears the insanity I tried to hide,
is prevalent for all far and wide to see...
but no one can recognize it for what it is,
stares it in the face, yet
can't see the forest for the trees.
It might be best that
Nobody knows but me.
the first time (the last time)
I have thought
and dreamed
and imagined
exactly how this would be.
And right now
in this moment
it's here upon me.
I must admit
it's everything
and more
than I ever wished for.
The embraces,
loving words,
adulation,
and attention...
it's almost overwhelming.
But I appreciate being appreciated.
This is the first time
I've ever felt like this.
Might not make sense,
but it warms my cold heart.
It's sad that it must come to this,
that I had to leave to bring you back
to your senses,
to your family,
to me.
As I lie down with closed eyes,
I can see perfectly clear...
that I am surrounded by love.
I just wish
I had the chance
to smile at you,
or the words
to say thank you.
and dreamed
and imagined
exactly how this would be.
And right now
in this moment
it's here upon me.
I must admit
it's everything
and more
than I ever wished for.
The embraces,
loving words,
adulation,
and attention...
it's almost overwhelming.
But I appreciate being appreciated.
This is the first time
I've ever felt like this.
Might not make sense,
but it warms my cold heart.
It's sad that it must come to this,
that I had to leave to bring you back
to your senses,
to your family,
to me.
As I lie down with closed eyes,
I can see perfectly clear...
that I am surrounded by love.
I just wish
I had the chance
to smile at you,
or the words
to say thank you.
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